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> # Nervous about getting help

> Written by Jay at 23 May 2004 00:07:38:

> I am so thankful I found this site. And reading the thread written by EBT really hit home as it seemed to for a lot of others here.

> Well before I pose my question here is a little about me. I am 24 now and similar to EBT I never realized I was different or something was wrong until my first sexual experience. I had seen uncircumsized penis' before (gym, locker room etc) but never though much about it. Kinda like some people are tall and others not, I just though their's was different than mine.

> Anyway so after realizing that I did some research and have what I believe to be phimosis and a short frenulum it has pretty much consumed me lately.

> Anyways that briefly summarizes bringing me to this point (Again the thread by EBT could have been me he was talking about) For those that are familiar I am able to retract when flacid with minimal discomfort and not at all when erect. Also I recently noticed that, I think it is called my frenulum seem to be short so that even if I could retract it would not fully roll back.

> So heres where I hope to get some advice. Has anyone had similar cases and received treatment? What was it? HOW was it? I am leaning towards requesting some sort of topical cream or at the most partial circumsision to free the ring and the frenulum.

> Also just some further history on the nervousness, I must say that my wife and I have just given birth to our first child and so I am so nervous that I something will go wrong. Kinda that why fix what not's broken. I have kinda adapted around my condition by it is by no means my ideal.

> thank you for your time and any advice.

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