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> # PART VIII - Sensitivity

> Written by chImp at 02 Sep 2004 21:08:28:

> As an answer to: My Full And Honest Experience With Phimosis written by chImp at 02 Sep 2004 20:13:18:

> PART VIII - Sensitivity

> So, what now?

> First of all, my glans was EXTREMELY sensitive way beyond
> what is needed for a normal person.

> I still masturbated face-down, rubbing my penis with
> a thin piece of clothing, while the glans was fully covered with
> the foreskin.

> After a while, this became problematic, because now when I got
> an erection, part of the glans was exposed and touching it with
> ANYTHING led to excruciating pain.

> Imagine this: I lay down, tuck my penis inside a thin T-shirt
> and start reading a porno mag. The erection grows. As long I
> lay still, nothing happenes. But when I start gently rubbing it
> using the T-shirt, at some point the glans gets exposed, leading
> to pain and immidiate loss of erection.

> And I could still not masturbate the normal way, which looks
> to me today as the very definition of a normal, unphimosed, person.

> However, the glans slowly adopted to the new deal, and I even
> started worrying - was I losing the hard-gained sensitivity for
> which I fought so long and so hard? The answer is definitely, unequivocally,
> NO. To this very day I am more sensitive than a person who has never had phimosis. In fact, I was forced to LOWER my sensitivity, otherwise I momentarily lost the erection when I attempted having sex with my girlfriend.

> I was still worried about me masturbating the wrong way. So I tricked my
> penis to become adjusted to the normal masturbating style by
> reaching the pre-orgasm state the old way, and then finishing off the
> new way, the right way.

> 2004, January 1st. I actually managed to successfully masturbate using
> only hands - from the beginning till the end! The way most normal people do it! Since then it was the desired way for me!

> 2004, April. I get my first girlfriend.

> 2004, May. I persuade her to start using birth control pills.
> I am very insecure about sex, and certainly about using
> condoms. I tried to masturbate with a condom on once, but
> failed. It is very unpleasant when the condom touches
> the glans! Plus I thought (again, wrongly), that wearing
> condoms during sex not only DIMINISHES sensitivity for
> the duration of the sex act, but does so forever. And if I
> started to have sex with a condom on, how would I know what it
> would feel like to have sex the first time WITHOUT a condom?
> I'd have nothing to compare it to. My FIRST time DEFINITELY
> HAD to be WITHOUT any condom.

> 2004, End of May. I make a first attempt to have sex. I fail.
> The thing is: I get aroused, then I try to insert the penis
> into the vagina. At this point the glans makes contact with the
> skin right outside of the vagina, and I automatically lose the
> erection.

> I understood that my worries about sensitivity were unjustified:
> I had a long way to go before I'd have the same sensitivity
> level as the other guys! I'm a lucky bastard who had so much
> sensitivity I even had to desensitise myself!

> As my girlfriend told me, most guys liked the girl touching their
> privates. I didn't: the contact of the glans and fingers meant physical
> pain.

> Anyway, my ingenuity saved me once again, besides, like history
> teaches us, it takes no brain desensiting yourself, it's the opposite
> that is difficult if at all possible.

> I took that same thin T-shist, which I for a couple of years had used
> as a masturbating tool alongside with pyjamas.
> Now I wrapped it around my penis and SLOWLY started to retract the foreskin,
> exposing the glans. The most painful area of the glans was the opening
> from the urine comes out ("urethra").

> The thing is that once you retract the foreskin, it's painful and unpleasant,
> but there's really not anything you can do! You can't simply remove
> the T-shirt, because that would lead to even more pain, and I knew it!

> I started slowly to shake my penis. The T-shirt was rubbing it and it was
> painful. However, I shook it for an hour or so, and it slowly went from
> painful to merely unpleasant, to neutral and finally to pleasuring,
> giving me a great orgasm!

> After that I also rubbed the exposed glans against the outer of my
> girlfriend's pussy for an hour or so.

> After that it (temporarily) became more difficult for me to masturbate. Remember, at this time I only used the correct way. For several days it took me
> up to an hour to get an orgasm by means of masturbation (at this point,
> me and my girlfriend were in different countries, and we still haven't
> had successful sex).

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