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# Re: update + details.. need help please Written by Robin at 27 Apr 2006 20:38:30: As an answer to: Re: update + details.. need help please written by Nero (adding more) at 26 Apr 2006 05:27:45: Hi Nero, Cleaning the glans - just use water no soap - if it hurts to splash the water on it then use a beaker (or my favourite is a nescafe jar) and dunk the glans in it and shake it around a bit. This might sound a little amateur, but this sensitivity is one of the big unsolved problems, cures are not available - and in my opinion men just have not experimented or reported their success/failure enough - so I believe the entire internet community is still at a loss on how to cure this. Im sorry I dont understand your 2nd. question - I believe the answer is that it is not normal - but many men are and have been in your position - it is no rarity - but sorry you need to rephrase your question. I just had a letter from a 35 yr. old - it makes me very angry that our culture and medicine does practically nothing to meet these problems - Dont even you at 16 wish that this had been checked and sorted out before puberty? - it really is a terrible burden when you should be simply enjoying your first sexual encounters with your girl friend. ... So I add the note that arc is looking for new energy ideas, and support - maybe youd like to look at the arc pages and see if you wanna join ... male-initiation.net/arc.html anyway take care - relax - it will soon be all over cheers Robin >2 more things to add, sorry. >1. Any suggestions for cleaning the glans? It kinda hurts still since they are very sensitive. >2. When i'm with my girlfriend and we are being affectionate with eachother - no sexual contact with me yet - but i find myself getting erect in my pants. And the more i move around, the more the foreskin gets pulled back in my pants. Soon after, i feel the glans exposed and it hurts since i'm wearing jeans/boxers. That is when i act like i'm checking with my contacts in the bathroom when i unzip and give my gentle tugs to pull the foreskin back over the head. >my question: is this normal?? Answers: Re: update + details.. need help please Nero 4/27/2006 21:30 (6) Re: update + details.. need help please Nero 4/29/2006 06:51 (5) Re: update + details.. need help please Robin 5/04/2006 19:43 (4) Re: update + details.. need help please Nero 5/06/2006 06:59 (3) Re: update + details.. need help please Robin 5/11/2006 18:56 (2) Re: update + details.. need help please Nero 5/12/2006 05:46 (1) Re: update + details.. need help please Robin 5/18/2006 19:41 (0)