> # Re: Dude, take it easy!!!!!! I'm 19 too

> Written by Nick at 31 Jul 2000 03:20:28:

> As an answer to: TIGHT FORESKIN, IMPOTENCE, AND ANXIETY!!! written by WORRIED dude at 30 Jul 2000 07:12:06:

> > I have some serious concerns! I know there are a lot of foreskin comments here, and I have a concern about my tight foreskin. Well at first it was very tight, but over the years I have been stretching it out and I used a cream for a while. Now I can pull it all the way back when limp, but when erect I can only pull it back partially and it is painful. My concern is that somewhere i read that there are thousands of very sensitive nerve endings on the foreskin which
> >enhance sex (making it much better for the uncircumcised man versus the circumcised). I am worried that by continually stretching it when it hurts I might damage these nerve endings (there are little tiny white spots (not smegma)that look like they might be nerve endings) and decrease my future sexual pleasure.
> > This is related to my other concerns. I am 19 year old virgin, itching to have sex. A few months ago I got involved with a girl who offered me sex on 4 occassions, but alas, I could not get an erection! Granted, 3 of these times i was either drunk or stoned, but the 4th time i was totally sober and I still couldn't get an erection, even after looking at porno! I wanted to crawl in a hole and die, cuz i'm 19 and couldn't get it up. But I talked to a doctor who said that since i regularly masturbate there can be nothing wrong with my penis, and I am not gay. Could it just be nervousness about losing my virginity????
> > Anyways, I thought maybe it was related to my foreskin, because the fact that I can't pull it back all the way means that maybe i can't get an erection without lots of direct pressure (i.e. masturbation) because the sensitive glans is covered. I mean, can I even have sex or get a decent blowjob when I can't pull my foreskin all the way back??? Last time I tried to pull it back for a blowjob, the blowjob hurt like hell!!! Will sex hurt? Should I keep forcing the skin back? will I damage nerves????
> > I need advice urgently because in a week this girl is coming to visit me and going to give me another opportunity to have sex. If I fail to get an erection this time i will need to crawl in a hole and die. What should I do??? I am so worried. If u reply, any medical studies or medical sites which can back up what u say would be greatly appreciated. Thank u my fellow men!

> I'm 19 too and not circd. I had phimosis but I used betamethasone .05% cream to cure it. I started having sex while I still had phimosis. Just keep your head calm and you'll be fine.
> Ask your doctor for a prescription for the cream. Heres the study I found about it: http://www.cirp.org/library/treatment/phimosis/wright/
> Print it out and show him. He'll give you a script then.
> Apply it once per day to the outside of your foreskin from the opening tip to about mid glans (mid head). YOu'll see results within the first week but it may take as long as 6-8 weeks. Its well worth it though. Sex feels a lot better when your skin goes back and slides up and down the head.
> Later dude,
> Nick

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> - Re: Dude, take it easy!!!!!! I'm 19 too aaa 8/25/2000 03:01 (0)

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