> # TIGHT FORESKIN, IMPOTENCE, AND ANXIETY!!!

> Written by WORRIED dude at 30 Jul 2000 07:12:06:

> I have some serious concerns! I know there are a lot of foreskin comments here, and I have a concern about my tight foreskin. Well at first it was very tight, but over the years I have been stretching it out and I used a cream for a while. Now I can pull it all the way back when limp, but when erect I can only pull it back partially and it is painful. My concern is that somewhere i read that there are thousands of very sensitive nerve endings on the foreskin which
> enhance sex (making it much better for the uncircumcised man versus the circumcised). I am worried that by continually stretching it when it hurts I might damage these nerve endings (there are little tiny white spots (not smegma)that look like they might be nerve endings) and decrease my future sexual pleasure.
> This is related to my other concerns. I am 19 year old virgin, itching to have sex. A few months ago I got involved with a girl who offered me sex on 4 occassions, but alas, I could not get an erection! Granted, 3 of these times i was either drunk or stoned, but the 4th time i was totally sober and I still couldn't get an erection, even after looking at porno! I wanted to crawl in a hole and die, cuz i'm 19 and couldn't get it up. But I talked to a doctor who said that since i regularly masturbate there can be nothing wrong with my penis, and I am not gay. Could it just be nervousness about losing my virginity????
> Anyways, I thought maybe it was related to my foreskin, because the fact that I can't pull it back all the way means that maybe i can't get an erection without lots of direct pressure (i.e. masturbation) because the sensitive glans is covered. I mean, can I even have sex or get a decent blowjob when I can't pull my foreskin all the way back??? Last time I tried to pull it back for a blowjob, the blowjob hurt like hell!!! Will sex hurt? Should I keep forcing the skin back? will I damage nerves????
> I need advice urgently because in a week this girl is coming to visit me and going to give me another opportunity to have sex. If I fail to get an erection this time i will need to crawl in a hole and die. What should I do??? I am so worried. If u reply, any medical studies or medical sites which can back up what u say would be greatly appreciated. Thank u my fellow men!

> Answers:

> - Re: Dude, take it easy!!!!!! I'm 19 too Nick 7/31/2000 03:20 (1)
>   - Re: Dude, take it easy!!!!!! I'm 19 too aaa 8/25/2000 03:01 (0)
> - Dear God, I am in the exact same position!! RC 7/30/2000 15:18 (5)
>   - Re: Dear God, I am in the exact same position!! BJ 9/30/2000 20:07 (1)
>     - Re: Dear God, I am in the exact same position!! R J Knight 10/01/2000 20:46 (0)
>   - Re: Dear God, I am in the exact same position!! WORRIED DUDE 7/30/2000 20:13 (2)
>     - I tried stretching, but it doesn't appear to be working R C 7/31/2000 01:10 (1)
>       - Re: I tried stretching, but it doesn't appear to be working Bert 9/10/2000 05:13 (0)

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