# Secondary Relative Phimosis -- Help in San Francisco?

> Written by Bernie on 17. September 1999 at 01:51:18:

> I believe I have seconday relative phimosis. Most likeley a
> fibrous type. The foreskin retracts wihtout problems when the
> penis is in the flaccid state, however I have problems with
> the retraction when I am erect.

> Intercourse is painful, and it's something I need to get resolved.
> I do not wish to be circumcised -- at least not all the way. I
> reside in San Francisco (Bay Area), and would love to hear of
> any Urologist or practitioner I can go to that will diagnose the
> condition himself, and help me find minimal treatment.

> I've allready been to a Urologist who told me to put hand-lotion
> on the area, and return in 3 months. He said the only other
> alternative was circumcision (which I know is not true).

> History:
> I didn't have this problem until later in life. I remember
> masturbating quite happily when I was 23. I had no idea that
> this type of thing could happen, so I was a bit rough with it
> at times. I clearly remember chaffing it becuase I wanted
> that orgasm so bad that I just kept on going -- even when the
> penis / foreskin was dry.

> I just thought it will heal over time. I guess I didn't wait
> long enough for it to heal all the way, and kept on misstreating
> it. I wish someone would have told me that this was a danger,
> and that I should be very carefull to stay lubricated when
> masturbating. Grrrr!

> I'm 28 now, and have problems with intercourse. I'm applying
> skin lotion on it... it's getting a bit better I think, but it's
> definately still a problem.

> Question:
> Has anyone every tried some type of steroid skin cream, or some
> other topical chemicals that can be used to restore skin?

> Answers:

> - Re: Secondary Relative Phimosis -- Help in San Francisco? RS 25.9.99 (0)

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