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# Never Had An Orgasm! (23 year-old male) Written by Dave at 30 Jan 2006 23:50:03: Please help! This is going to sound really fucked up, this is the situation I find myself in! I really do need advice! I have never had an orgasm in my life. I masterbate frequently, and I CAN ejaculate and experience a little pleasure from, but I definately do not orgasm. This has affected my relationships in the past in a big way, in fact it's affected my life in a pretty big way. I feel so depressed about it as you can imagine. When I was younger I had phimosis. Through many months of stretching I managed to make it retractable. Now though, I have realised the foreskin is bonded directly to the glans (no frenulum). When I masterbate, I get very turned on to start with, but it seems that the more turned on I get the tighter and tighter the bond gets and it seems to cause the ejaculatory reflex on each tug (ie. the muscles at the base of the penis clench really hard). This seems to prevent me ever reaching intense please or an orgasm. It's almost like the pleasure is reset when the muscles are clenched, yet I am still turned on and frustrated. I can finish myself off by clenching the muscles at the base and furiously wanking, resulting in ejaculation but no orgasm. This really REALLY gets me down. I dont know what to do!! Has anyone ever experienced this? Has anyone else ever had phimosis with an adhesion where the fenulum should be? What I don't understand is that people who have phimosis seem to have no trouble reaching climax. But for me, its like I need to have the foreskin sliding over the glans to get pleasure - yet this is what ultimately causes the pain and ejaculatory reflex. Any advice greatly appreciated!!!!!!!!! Dave Answers: Re: Never Had An Orgasm! (23 year-old male) Robin 2/02/2006 21:03 (2) Re: Orgasm! a few practical thoughts Robin 2/08/2006 19:16 (0) Re: Never Had An Orgasm! (23 year-old male) BEN WESTLAKE 2/06/2006 01:48 (0) Re: Never Had An Orgasm! (23 year-old male) Braiden 2/01/2006 23:53 (1) Re: Never Had An Orgasm! (23 year-old male) Rob 2/08/2006 19:19 (0)