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# treatment - phimosis Written by RS at 11 Jan 2005 17:11:36: treatment - phimosis First of all, I would prefer my name (email address) to be kept private... English Male, 36 yrs old,, obviously un-cut,, I really don't know how the necrotic process began,,, but intimacy issues arose literally between my wife and I flexibility was starting to decrease, bringing first of all discomfort and then pain,, the pain I fear to say would over-ride the pleasure of intimacy, so ED arose only when the head was fully exposed,, otherwise excessive lubrication had to be used as not to force the skin to retract,, this theory did work short term for me but not for my wife who would complain about excessive 'moisture', thus, this treated the symptom not the cause... Being an Engineer,,, like all mechanical function,, the idea of inserting cylindrical object to stretch it out,,, this I did for what must seem to be at least half a year,, but it only gave short term stretch/relief but the continual pain/itching did not make me a social/sexual creature, plus the continual adjustment did make me look like I was infected,, according to my wife I would 'adjust' automatically without thinking where I was,, so onto the next step At its worst, I paid a visit to a Urologist early February 2003 where constriction was about 3/4 Diameter, with excessive pain to retract, I had the dreaded hour glass silhouette. I asked about d-slit, cream or some new procedure, being cut wasn't preferred but an option he wanted, at the time I had a rash so he prescribed a steroid cream 0.25 percent which cleaned up the rash (this will become apparent later) So being cut wasn't what I wanted to hear so I decided to do some internet search, hence your website.... thanks So, the theory of a more aggressive stretching came to mind,, now for the last 6 weeks,, every time I use the bathroom I do some therapy,, started out with being able to insert 2 index finger tips and manipulate the 'ring"... (when you see stars or your legs get weak, its time to release) over time the diameter started to stretch,,, this was more apparent the more aggressive I got,, the pain I felt I would prefer to be highly intense for a few minutes each hour rather than continual aggravation of the previous method. I used a star pattern (pull and release and then re-clock the fingers about 60 degrees and start again) ,,, during the course of the day and assumed 5 Mins. x 12 time a day,, at the end of the days routine the 'ring' would eventually be the same diameter of the un-effected skin.. the medication would be applied prior to bed and then the process of stretching would begin again the next day.. showing a little loss of the previous days gain,, that being expected,,, skin color changed too,, prior to stretching the ring was a whitish band,, but the continual stretching and breaking of the skin would turn a dark purple/dark red,,, now the skin tone looks normal and currently doing a more of a maintenance stretch and application of medication...nominally at 1.25 Diameter... :))) Hope this helps,, It may work for some xx Answers: Re: stretching secondary ring Robin 2/16/2005 19:23 (0)